Suggestions please. in need of some wisdom?

First all never have sex with a man that quickly if you do truly like him. Secondly, once he broke it off, you should have left it at that. No calls, texts, or "friendships" as they like to put it. Men are too funny & some take complete advantage of your feelings once they are aware you have them for them. Third, they will always tell you exactly what they think you want to hear, whether or not your in a serious relationship with them. I am more concerned about you at the moment. So this guy breaks it off but still wants to be attached like he owns you, NOT COOL. I suggest if you seriously dont want to end up hurt, you come clean. Tell this guy exacrky what you want from him. Nothing more & nothing less. It sounds like you want a relationship. If hes not willing to go that route, then drop him likes hes hot & move on. At the moment it sounds like your nothing to him but a woman he can be comfortable with yet, with no real attachment. Naturally, it sounds like he has the potential to be a good lover, however good love doesnt leave you so confused you have ti look outside yourself to answer what you maybe to him. You ask him, he responds, then you put it all on the line. You may not get the response you want, expect, or deserve but it will atleast open the door for you walk out of if all else fails. Its a heartbreaker I know, theyre good looking, sweet, smooth talkers, who ocassionally give you the feelings of happiness, security, and comfort every woman wants but if hes not "yours" then your wasting time finding that with someone who wants to give you that & mean it. And I promise, their is always someone willing to pick up where he left off. It might not be over night, next month, or even next year but it will happen. Atleast if you truly end it, hell see yiur serious. If you go as far as to break all the ties that bind h will either seriously consider a relationship or show his true colors & lose all interest, & atleast thats better than confusion & frustration.